my family is very unfair, and its not just me that sees it. there are no double standards or consistent rules and i am constantly confused as to what the hell is going on inside my house. my parents scream all the time, living with my brother is unbearable because he has guy pms, and i have a lot of stress already from school. my parents just screamed at me to do laundry and let my brother on the computer while i was doing a TERM PAPER. TERM PAPER!!!! so i start to get mad and i said "no." disrespectful, i know.. but i wasnt getting off and this was a new rule so my brother can get his way because supposedly i was on "all day" even though i was at a 5 hr. science fair.. ok not a big deal.. but then they said "well get off now... or your in your room the whole week" so i said "that's ridiculous im doing a term paper due tomorrow and you're telling me to let someone else use this computer to talk to friends" .. so they get angrier "do the laundry now and you're off for 2 days.." so i start screaming "NO NO NO" and this is how all of our fights turn out. i mean was i wrong? granted i was disrespectful and it didn't help, but was that ridiculous? kicking me off to let my brother have time on the computer which he was on for four hours after school today which my parents didnt know about and i kept my mouth shut about? like can a human, my brother, be that mean and selfish?i cant take it anymore. im seriously thinking about leaving if this is how it's going to be. im at my end.- kennedygirl
My family is unfair too.
You were a bit tactless w/ the computer ordeal. You could have calmly explained how you had a term paper due tomorrow and you weren't on all day because of the science fair. If they made you get off ask if you could go to the library. But you need to talk to them. And w/ rules. No one is perfect. My dad no longer talks to me now that he has kicked me out of his house and my mom is very sick. I would give anything to have assurance of a future w/ them. You'll never know how lucky you are to have them until you loose them.
You should leave the house and sell your young cunt to any john with some cash.